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Comment on napa by Violetta

Violetta — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 16:20:36 +0000

Maybe he’s just worried that if he commits and then doesn’t have the money at the time it will be worse than if he waits to commit. But yeah, I’d feel the same way if it happened to me. Hope the weekend goes well!

Comment on evidence of my former life by Roodle

Roodle — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 22:36:33 +0000

Yeah, it’s great that those boxes aren’t lurking in your life anymore.

Which stuff did you keep? I hope there are some nice things, like the hope chest, that don’t feel tainted by the bad times.

I have no idea what you think is cowardly about how you’re handling this. You’ve built a very positive new life, you’re taking care of yourself, and you deal with reminders of the bad times as they come up, in the way that works best for you. It doesn’t hurt your ex-in-laws when you choose not to dwell on whatever happy memories you have of them. If it’s important for you to remember the good times, you will naturally after you’ve healed more.

I hope you can feel proud of how you’re handling it, rather than guilty.

Comment on evidence of my former life by Violetta

Violetta — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 01:20:43 +0000

I’m glad you got rid of that stuff finally! It must feel like a bit of the weight & the past memories got sold off along with the frames and other things.

Comment on ouch! by Juliet

Juliet — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 18:14:04 +0000

Ouchies….hope it’s better now.

Comment on one missed call by Juliet

Juliet — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 22:53:45 +0000

You let me know if you need company. Anytime.

Comment on weekend vacation by Roodle

Roodle — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 23:59:14 +0000

That is really weird.

Could it be his finances, or have they improved?

I wonder what he’d say if you asked him why he’s doing that.

Comment on last night i didn’t sleep by Roodle

Roodle — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 14:47:09 +0000

You haven’t posted for a while — are you OK? I hope it’s because you’re too busy having fun. But if you’re having a rough time, hang in there. I only know you from your posts, but I agree with Violetta — you’re an amazing woman.

Comment on last night i didn’t sleep by Violetta

Violetta — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 01:49:31 +0000

I love you. I’m glad you are working on forgiving yourself. I’m sorry that you feel you need to. You are an amazing woman. This too shall pass.

Comment on my monthly by Violetta

Violetta — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 01:24:09 +0000

I like Juliet’s anecdote (p.s. that is a dumb word to spell). I too agree about getting all girly around that time. and the hormones. dreadful.

Comment on my monthly by Juliet

Juliet — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 00:53:52 +0000

Ugh…I am usually pretty easy going too (except that I have to eat every 4th hour like an effing baby). However, when aunt Flow comes to town I am somewhat of a monster. I once instructed my little sister on how to properly eat potato chips, since I thought she chewed WAAAAY to loudly. I also experience road-rage, which is completely out of character for me. Yeah, pretty obnoxious. Maybe not so easy going after all.

P.S. I knew someone who had a real aunt named Flow, and she actually came to town.